Female orgasm is a hot topic when it comes to sex🔥.
Men want to bring their partner to orgasm, and woman want to achieve orgasms with ease.
As a sexually empowered being, a goddess if you will 😌, I’ve conducted plenty… research… 😂 and am well versed in the art of the female orgasm.
So, naturally, being an expert in this subject matter, has led me to discuss this crucial moment with you. I believe that what I have discovered about these positions will take your sex life to the next level!
Get Yourself in The Mood
I’d like to preface everything we’re going to discuss today with this… Ladies, WE are in charge of our own orgasms!
Most women need mental AND clitoral stimulation to cum.
The sex positions I discuss empower you to take charge of your orgasms! Mental stimulation is also necessary to achieve orgasm. So, it’s important to not forget that step while you’re bumping and grinding😉.
Never be afraid to be vocal with your partner to create the mental environment you need to finish.
To reiterate, women need mental stimulation to cum regardless of position.
Prepare yourself by mentally picturing your sexiest fantasies and desires long before you get to the bedroom.
Combining your fantasies and being expressive with your partner will not only put you in a great space mentally, it’ll also double as great foreplay.
Also, taking time for solo pleasure will allow you to figure out what works and how to work it. Learning yourself is what will give you the opportunity to be present for the passion and produce the big “O” you desire.
Best positions for female orgasm:
3. Doggy style
Drum rolls please 🥁…Coming at Number 3… we have Doggy Style.
This position is a fan favorite for many reasons…
It allows maximum penetration while allowing the man to do most of the work (depending on how you like to swing things LOL).
This is a true gift for the girls who like deeper stimulation.
If your man knows what to do in this position, he has access to every part of body and is able to easily change speed, depth, and fondle all of your lady bits.
To gets things hot and keep them going long enough for you to both reach that magical moment of ecstasy. A little caress of the nipples, a kiss on the back, some deep slow strokes while you’re rubbing the “bean” is definitely guaranteed to take you there in minutes.
This position allows your man to go deep putting focus on the cervix which is full of nerve endings and rub against pleasure spots. Combining that with direct clit stimulation will bring you both beautiful, body quacking orgasms.
Be Cautious
This position gives your man a direct POV of your booty and sexy curves.
In order to meet your man where he’s at; make sure you maintain lots of stimulation to your clitoris with generous speed and use your hips to create slower motions if your man is beating you to the finish line.
Never be afraid to pause and have him focus on you for a bit if needed!
2. Side lying
Or what I like to call the cuddle position.
This position is SO amazing, especially in the morning when you want to get your rocks off but don’t have time for morning breath.
Regardless, when desire strikes, you can use this position any time of day to get things going⏳.
Have your man lie behind you while you’re both on your sides, Lift your top leg over his top leg so that you are both comfortable, allow him to enter in with you guiding his tip inside as he pushes. You’ll then be able to rub your clit while he’s stroking inside you. In this position the G-spot will receive direct stimulation if he’s curved upwards or not at all. Try rubbing your clit, while he is kissing your neck and stimulating your nipples for an added bonus. You’ll really be able to bask in his masculine energy while he’s caressing your body.
The nipple stimulation and clitoral caresses alone would bring any woman to orgasm, but by adding strokes to your G-spot you’re creating a recipe of sweet sticky fun.
Perfect for Comfort and Cuddles
This position is ideal if it is your first time attempting to engage an orgasm during sex or are dealing with a fairly new partner. You don’t have to maintain direct eye contact, so you are able to avoid some of the potential awkwardness.
Try this and let your mind run wild with fantasies, zone in on your pleasure, and your mate. Afterwards, turn this position into a nice post-sex cuddle session.
1. Missionary
We’ve made it all the way to number 1… and I know what you’re probably thinking. “Missionary? How boring?”
But rest assured. Missionary is the best sex position for female orgasm.
Missionary grants the easiest access to your lady bits
And we should all know by now… clitoral stimulation is the supreme way to orgasm (for many women it’s the only way).
Lay back, legs open like 10 and 2… on his shoulders… behind your head… However you like it. Just let your man enter you and feel his weight on top of you!
Lubricating your clitoris will ensure just the right amount of pressure is applied.
Licking your fingers then touch yourself for your man to watch while he’s pleasuring you with his stroke game is a great way to keep things sexy.
The contact and communication you are able to have with your man on top gives you mutual control of the situation.
The depth, speed, and stimulation of missionary is unmatched by any other sex position. Your man could rotate his hips to touch different sensitive areas inside you while sucking on your nipples and you’re rubbing your clitoris… the possibilities are endless. This position is easily a bedroom favorite for a reason.
The OG of Sex Position
This is the OG of sex positions for a reason… easy access to the punani by both parties, sensual eye contact, and of course a sexy man on top of you and in control.
What’s not to love?
The popularity of this position lies in the ease of it and the ability to produce orgasms for all involved.
You can remix this position in a great deal of ways to create a greater connection to each other’s bodies. Or a different combination of feelings, like licking his ear while he’s kissing your neck.
Passionate kisses, eye contact, nipple sucking is just the beginning of the pleasures this position allows.
So, there you have it, my pick of the best sex positions for female orgasm. Give ’em a try… I won’t say I told you so 😉
Sincerely, Shannice xoxo
Sincerely Shannice 
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