Female orgasm is a hot topic when it comes to sex. Men want to bring their partner to orgasm, and woman want to achieve orgasms with ease. As a sexually empowered being, a goddess if you will, I’ve conducted plenty… research… LOL and am well versed in the art of female orgasm. So, I would like to discuss the pinnacle moment of sex with you. What I have discovered about these positions will take your sex life to the next level.
Get Yourself in The Mood
I’d like to preface everything we’re going to discuss today with this… Ladies WE are in charge of our own orgasms! Most women need mental AND clitoral stimulation to cum. These sex positions empower you to take charge of your orgasms! Mental stimulation is also necessary to achieve orgasm. So, it’s important to not forget that step while you’re bumping and grinding😉.
To reiterate, women need mental stimulation to cum regardless of position. Mentally picture your sexiest fantasies and desires long before you get to the bedroom. You will be mentally prepared for the action and ready to go. Also, taking time for solo pleasure will allow you to figure out what works and how to work it. Learning yourself will give you the opportunity to be present for the passion and produce the big “O” you desire. Having a good time with a knowledgeable partner in any of the listed positions is sure to land you both on cloud 9.
3. Doggy style
Coming at number 3 we have Doggy Style. This position is a fan favorite for many reasons…
It allows maximum penetration while allowing the man to do most of the work (depending on how you like to swing things LOL). If your man knows what to do in this position, he has access to every part of body and is able to easily change speed, depth, and fondle all of your lady bits to gets things hot and keep them going long enough for you to both reach that magical moment of ecstasy. A little caress of the nipples, a kiss on the back, some deep slow strokes while you’re rubbing the “bean” is definitely guaranteed to take you there in minutes. This position allows your man to go deep putting focus on the cervix which is full of nerve endings and pleasure spots that bring beautiful body quacking orgasms.
Be Cautious
This position gives your man a direct POV of your booty and sexy curves. In order to meet your man where he’s at; make sure you maintain lots of stimulation to your clitoris with generous speed and use your hips to create slower motions if your man is beating you to the finish line.
2. Side lying
Or what I like to call the cuddle position.
This position is so amazing especially in the morning when you want to get your rocks off but don’t have time for morning breath. Regardless, you can use the position any time of day to get things going. Have your man lie behind you while you’re both on your sides (bask in his masculine energy). Lift your top leg over his top leg so that you are comfortable. Then rub your clit while he’s stroking you (fast or slow your preference). In this position the G-spot will receive direct stimulation. Try rubbing your nipples while he is kissing your neck for an added bonus. The nipple stimulation and clitoral caresses alone would bring any woman to orgasm but by adding strokes to your G-spot you’re creating a recipe of sweet sticky fun.
Perfect for Comfort and Cuddles
This position is ideal if it is your first time attempting to engage an orgasm during sex or are dealing with a fairly new partner. You don’t have to maintain direct eye contact, so you are able to avoid some of the potential awkwardness. Try this and let your mind run wild with fantasies, zone in on your pleasure, and your mates. Afterwards, turn this position into a nice post-sex cuddle session.
1. Missionary
We’ve made it all the way to number 1, and I know what you’re probably thinking. “Missionary? How boring?” But rest assured. Missionary is the best sex position for female orgasm.
Missionary grants the easiest access to your lady bits, and we should all know by now… clitoral stimulation is the supreme way to orgasm (for many women it’s the only way) with satisfaction. Lubricating your clitoris will ensure just the right amount of pressure is applied. Licking your fingers then touch yourself for your man to watch while he’s pleasuring you is a great way to keep things sexy. The contact and communication you are able to have with your man on top gives you both the ability to control the situation. The depth, speed, and stimulation of missionary is unmatched by any other sex position. Your man could rotate his hips to touch different sensitive areas inside you while sucking on your nipples and you’re rubbing your clitoris… the possibilities are endless. This position will easily become a bedroom favorite.
The OG of Sex Position
This is the OG of sex positions for a reason… easy access to the punani by both parties, sensual eye contact, and of course a sexy man on top of you and in control. What’s not to love? The popularity of this position lies in the ease of it and the ability to produce orgasms for all involved. You can remix this position in a great deal of ways to create a greater connection to each other’s bodies. Passionate kisses, eye contact, nipple sucking is just the beginning of the pleasures this position allows.
So, there you have it, my pick of the best sex positions for female orgasm. Give ’em a try… I won’t say I told you so 😉
Sincerely, Shannice xoxo
Sincerely Shannice 
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