Regardless of gender we all love a partner that has amazing oral skills.

But today we’re here to talk about what the fellas like 😘

Whether you’re trying to get or keep your man, amazing blow job skills should be a part of your sex life.

Step Your Game Up

Oral sex is an amazing part of any healthy sex life, and a healthy sex life is a requirement for any happy romantic relationship. My guide to Oral Sex That Will Make Him Obsessed is guaranteed to spiced-up your sex life. Keep reading to learn how 😌

If he has been begging for it or you’re feeling adventurous use my step-by-step guide to satisfy your man.

I want to help you ladies bring the heat to your sex life and add excitement into your bedroom. Use some or all of my oral sex skills and your “head game” will improve dramatically.

The “BJ ” Bible:

How to starts without delay,

Began with a light sensual touch

In any sexually intimate relationship, you need a variety of touch. It is especially important when considering that physical touch is one of the most common love languages.

I prefer to personally begin with sensual sweet caresses to warm my man up and slowly arouse him.

I find that a key point to sucking it like a pro is the buildup.

Start gently and slow so you have the time to work him.

Tease him before you take any amount of him into your mouth. Gently rub his chest and kiss his neck until your down on your knees.

Kiss around his thighs and balls to make him anticipate it. Start slowly and take your time with this step and get to know the most intimate parts of his body. Lightly kiss, lick, and caress your man.

Take his penis in one hand and lick it up from the balls to the top. Then gently wrap your lips around the tip like you’re kissing it.

Kiss his tip and repeatedly lick from his balls to his tip lightly. You’ll can flick your tongue back and forth or up and down.

If your man is more sensitive with his balls give them slightly less attention. Cupping and holding them while you kiss the surrounding areas…

Find out what your partner likes by his movements and sounds. Continue taking your time with this step and slowly arousing your man. Enjoy these moments with him. Don’t be afraid to work your kisses back up to his mouth 👄

Take Him In

Make him obsessed with your oral sex skills.

Once he is fully aroused and begging, Go all the way down his shaft until your lips meet his pelvis or as far as you can then pause for a moment.

Allow your man to enjoy the deep throat sensation.

Depending on his erection now and penis size it may be more difficult to deep throat but put in your best effort. Then open your mouth widely while breathing and coming off his cock, pause, and repeat. Afterwards your man will be completely hard so proceeding slowly will help you avoid triggering your gag reflex. Repeat slowly as much as you and your man enjoy until you’re ready to proceed.

Using no hands began moving your head up and down his penis.

If it helps, rest your hands on his thighs to maintain control.

Move your tongue in various ways to tease the tip every time your head comes back up. Don’t go all the way down at this point. This is just faster sucking motions for you to taste and enjoy. This will also allow you to move faster and avoid choking.

Remember to be vocal throughout the whole sex session (yes, oral sex can be the main event)! Soft moaning and muffled words will encourage your man to orgasm. Let him know that you are in the moment and that pleasing him is your priority by being open.

Stroke It Real Good

When you’re ready to move on, take his entire penis in your mouth using no hands and hold it again.

Do this 2-3 times, then place your hand under your mouth and start stroking his dick moving your hand in a figured 8 motion while licking the tip with your tongue and giving gentle kisses.

Repeat until your wrist starts hurting. Then take him in and suck him up real good. 😈

Use a moment to spit on his dick and get it sloppy wet then began stroking it more. Rub it on your face and around your tongue to show him your excitement!

Next you will want to start licking and sucking his balls while continuing to stroke his dick.

Explore the areas around his balls with your tongue to increase his pleasure and become more familiar with his body. Try taking both his balls into your mouth and remember to continue stroking. 

Lick your way back up from his balls to the tip, then start treating it with your tongue. Light licks and sucking at the tip while continuing to stroke him.

Start stroking and licking his penis again making sure your lips are touching the tops of your hands so he can’t tell the difference between the two and keep doing it over and over. 

Down We Go

Take his entire dick down your throat as many times as you can moving up and down quickly. You want it to lightly hit the back of your throat. 

If you prefer this is a point where he can be interactive and stroke your throat.

Let him rub your pretty face while he fills it with his cock. Then take back control your job 🫦

Turn your head to the side, and put his dick inside your cheek then and quickly move your head up and down while still turned to the side.

Let the head of his penis massage the side of your cheek and cup his balls. You will want to do this step quickly and repeatedly for a while. The tip of his penis massaging your cheek and hitting the back cheek area will give the illusion that he is being deep throated without you having to gag. 

Next, fold your lips around your teeth, and began bobbing your head up and down his penis.

Suck while you bob your head up and down his shaft.

Wrap your lips tightly around his penis. The pressure of your teeth behind your lips will feel great for your man.

*Just remember to keep your teeth completely covered by your lips*

If you don’t have thick lips open your mouth very wide will help you keep things sexy, but this move is mostly for the girls with thick lips 🤭

Suck It Up

If at any time you need a break… stop, spit, stroke until you’re ready to put your mouth back to work.

In order to give him oral sex that’ll make him obsessed and truly suck it like a pro you have to keep it enjoyable from start to finish.

This means making sure to finish him, and, well… In other words, you got to “suck it up” darling.

Swallow his juices is sex, yummy, and visually pleasing. If it’s not your thing, no worries queen, let him put it wherever he desires, just keep it sexy and have fun. 

This guide is guaranteed to make your man’s toes curl and make him obsessed with your lips.

Master the bedroom to improve any relationship. Use any variation of the tips I have listed above or, use them in a sequence until your man is writhing in orgasmic bliss!

Sincerely, Shannice xoxo

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